PRIVATE, AND JUST FOR YOU
Before the baby arrives, find out what you're expecting.
You've talked about what you'll need for the baby. Have you talked about what everyday life will look like for you?
Who gets up at night? What happens to your time and your work? Most couples assume they picture these the same way. They usually haven't checked.
Seven questions is all it takes. At the end you get a private First Look at your answers, plus places to start the conversation.
Free. About 2 minutes. No card required.
It's not that you disagree. It's that you never checked.
The big things are settled. You want to do this well, and you want to do it together. You've said as much to each other.
The trouble sits one level down. You both said you'd share the nights, one of you meant alternating, the other meant 2am is yours. You both said family is welcome, one of you meant for the afternoon, the other meant for three weeks. Nobody lied. Nobody was even wrong. You simply never got specific, and now you're finding out at the worst possible hour.
Those are the talks worth having now, while you still have the time and the patience for them.
Start light
You don't have to solve all of it tonight. Seven questions, two minutes, nothing to pay.
You'll see your own answers written down, the couple of things that stand out most, and somewhere to start the conversation.
That's enough to know whether this is worth more of your time. If it is, the full version takes you through all seven properly.
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Answer 7 questions
Seven questions about how you picture the first few months. About two minutes.
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Get your First Look
See exactly what you're expecting on each of the seven, laid out plainly, so you know where to start talking. No cost to find out.
There are no right answers. Just pick what's closest to how you picture it.